I had to comment and say that I have had the exact same problem for years. And I too have been angry at my husband (and at the world!) in the morning when waking up, or trying to wake up.
I have not yet understood why this happens. I am planning on discussing this with a specialist to get some answers. I want this taken care of. I do not want to put my husband through this any longer.
I just wanted to say you are not alone.
Hang in there.